For the Hopeless Romantics

Love at first sight...really?

almost famous — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 01:25:03 -0700

So I have watched over hundreds of wedding shows and talk shows about real love. However, there have been stories that made me go REALLY???!!!
I am a hopless romantic. I love the idea of being head over heels in love.The kinds of love stories I'm referring to are the ones about people looking at photos of othrs they don't know and having that gut feeling, this is the one. I mean we all look at photos of hot celebrities guys and say I wonder how a relationship will happen if we were together. However some people REALLY believe it to be their soul mate. The ironic part is that they meet this person and they REALLY DO marry. Talk about having a serious crush. Even celebs are like this..
Nick Cannon crushed on Mariah Carey before actually marrying her. Click here to read it.
Katie Holmes dreamed of Tom Cruise before marrying him. Click here to read it.
Even a man on Oprah's couch shared his story about falling for a young woman in a photo...
Click here to read it. I guess there's hope for us romatics afterall!

signs of cheating!

mira1988 — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 22:58:41 -0700

In the next six months I will be writing a book with my ex, yes my ex about cheating in relationships and throught my journey of cheating I can give you some definate signs if you ever suspect it.
1. The old "acting distant" game, that could mean not as talkative with you, not as lovey dovey with you.
2. Stopped using and slowed down the use of terms of endearment, the honeys, and babys, and sweetipies, arent being used.
3. The most obvious not as home and uses alot of excuses or for people who dont live together he doesnt see you as much. They usually use the "out with friends card.
4. They are on there phone ALOT more, checking isnt being crazy some guys put there little lovers under a guys name girls do the same thing sometimes.
5. If you suspect that your lover is cheating with someone you know you, they tend to bring that person up alot! For example- we should hang out with so and so today, or I havent seen so and so in a while, or they tend to compliment that person alot more. You would be suprised.
6.When they get home and jump in the shower right away dead give away! there washing away the evidence.
7. They might be questioning you alot more and asking your where abouts, this is guilt eating at them and now since they know there getting away with it they start to wonder if you are too.
8. DEFENSE- if you simply ask them where there going and they get all heated up and defensive, well thats because there up to something and turning it around on you and calling you crazy and over bearing that gets spares them an extra hour while you sit at home and question your sanity. Trust me your not crazy.
9. Its normal to compliment good looking people but not everyone when your with you lover, pay close attention to there eyes and they way they talk about other people (opposite sex) cheaters have a mantality of noticing more, well, because there getting more.
10. This may seem strange, but If your lover seems to be spending less money on you and hasnt had any other expenses that you know of it could because he is spending it on someone else. If the flowers have stopped or the dinners, If you really suspect, it could be there treating someone else.
11. This may not apply to some cheaters but drinking. Yes drinking, cheaters tend to drink a little more and go out a little more to the bars or parties. keep an eye on that.

These signs may not apply to some but I assure you they apply to most. There is nothing wrong with snooping but only if you suspect it. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings a person can go throught its not just the fact you were cheated on its the healing and blaming too. Dont put yourself throught that. I hope this helps to anyone who is suspecting this in there relationship.

I want him back!!!!!

mira1988 — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 22:22:08 -0700

MY ex and have been broken up for about four months now we have been on and off do to my choices not his. He was my best friend the only uy who has ever listened to me. he wrote me songs, bought me flowers wrote me poems suprised me with little gifts. But he was my best freind first, my everything we were even planning to get married and one day i played him the song i wanted to walk down the aisle to and later that day i got home from work and he learned to play it on the piano for me. We use to sit on the balcony of our apt and sing the whole track to juno with eachother and he would play his guitar anytime we spent together was the best moments of my life even grocery shopping together was something we looked forword to. A couple months ago he starte dating this other girl who is younger then him, has a horrible rep and I know she will hurt him. He still calls me and hints to me he misses me, hell we even have two dogs together that we trade off like divorced parents with children. He knows I am still deeply inlove with him and i want to get him back so bad and have tried everything from poetry to balling my eyes out to him but I feel like he wont leave her because it wouldnt be that simple. were even writing a book together right now about our relatioship. WHY WONT HE JUST COME BACK!!!!!!!!!! and what can I do!!!

I want him back!!!!!

mira1988 — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 22:22:07 -0700

Addicted to Sugar!!!

bowyerlori — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 16:14:16 -0700

Okay, I started a blog called The turning of the Page, it is all about what Iv'e been through in my marriage and how I am trying to move on with my life. I'm new to this and would love to read others stories and have ppl comment on mine as well as advise me on things. I want to meet new friends and be a part of Sugarland! I love this place and any comments will be appreciated! Have a gloriouse day!!!!

Im getting married in Las vegas. wondering if anyone knows some romatic place to get married there ?

NikkiChristensen — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 07:04:24 -0700

Me and the love of my life is getting married in september. We want to have our own little private wedding just for the two of us before we have the big white official wedding. Does anyone know of any Classy elegant places in Las vegas to get married. I dont exactly want the Elvis presley thing! Thanks for any suggestions

Love Nikki

Love !

NikkiChristensen — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 06:42:27 -0700

My amazing fiance got me the moast beautiful flowers today!

What to buy for my boyfriends 21st Birthday?

courtney422 — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:50:15 -0700

So here is the quick scenario... We started dating in February and we just officially became b/f g/f last week. My birthday was in April and he got my a diamond necklace. He does not drink or smoke and is a good christian guy. He will be turning 21 in less than a week, and so far I have gotten him a picture of us (which is total surprise b/c it was taken at a tourist spot) and I was thinking of either making dinner for him or taking him out for dinner. My question is, what else should I get him for his birthday?
Help! Thanks!

Wedding on the beach?

christy82091 — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 14:51:31 -0700

me and my boyfriend have been talking about how when we get married that i want our wedding to be on the beach. were engaged now and we plan on getting married when were 21..so has anyone gotten married on the beach? or knows how much it costs and good beaches to do it at?? help will be appreciaetd =]

BreakUpDiary #1 - Amber

KRYSTAL TANNER — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 21:26:21 -0800